Friday, April 6, 2007

Divorced

Emailed lawyer at least 3x since we submitted revised documents Nov. 2006, as per the court, asking why my final decree hasn't yet been granted. She said to my face in her office, when she receives notification she'll send me a copy. She thought the court may decide to date the initial filing from when the revised documents were sent in, which would have meant no decree until Nov. 2007.

Its now April 2007 and I am in limbo (what else is new)with legal documents that need to be changed e.g. pension cannot be revised ERISA unless divorce can be proven. Bank accounts can't be closed or changed, medical insurance is still covering him and he using it.

I emailed lawyer again yesterday asking if indeed I should just 'understand' the decree will not be granted until fall 2007 at the earliest???

She emailed back this morning, "apparently the divorce was granted in November and available at the clerk's office."

Bli neder I will never, ever marry again, ever.
Never say never?
Never. bli ein hora.

1 comment:

Dan Balsamo said...

Man that sucks so bad! So you're gonna have to wait that long to be able to actually do anything? I feel bad for you! This is why marriage is not just the love factor to be considered, because other than that, you have your entire life to share with this person. Well all I can say is good luck!

Mel Balsamo
JRomances.com